The world reflects how you feel

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The world reflects how you currently feel about yourself; if you lift opinion and self esteem of yourself it seems there is something you gained for a day. If you lower your opinion and your confidence the world is doing exactly what you are doing to yourself. The world mirrors what you think and everything seems to be negative. The truth is since I changed the way of thinking I began to think positive and everything happening in the world turn to reflect how I feel. 

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If you have a low self esteem this means everything that 

surrounds you has no direction, you have no energy to clean your house or make yourself looks beautiful. If you have wishes to dress to be noticed you will then hide that because of insecurity. These examples might not be true because others are born in that a situation then it affects their environmental growth.

You need to be very careful of what things you do in your

 life to please other people instead of yourself, and how

 these things differ from what you would ideally like in

 your personal environment. However most of the time

 people need to be pleased are parents and spouses. 

A skill set called leadership.

A leader must have the following characters in order to acquire leadership skills:

- Be approachable

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- Be motivational

- Be apologetic

- Be able to delegate and work as team

- Be accessible

A leader needs to lead transformational not transactional. When a leader is leading through leadership skills there will be no contracts signed aside, a leader will lead revolutionary an example of a leader who leaded revolutionary is Dr Nelson Mandela. He is SA Icon; he is our logo and many other things that I might not be able to write down now. He is not the only leader with such skills I just chose him as an example we have leaders such as Thabo Mbeki, Helen Zille, Winnie Madikizela- Mandela and Desmond Tutu. 

“I am fundamentally an optimist. Whether that comes from nature or nurture, I cannot say. Part of being optimistic is keeping one's head pointed toward the sun, one's feet moving forward. There were many dark moments when my faith in humanity was sorely tested, but I would not and could not give myself up to despair. That way lays defeat and death.”
 Nelson Mandela, Long Walk to Freedom: Autobiography of Nelson Mandela

A leader can lead in a two way process it is either on a positive way or on a negative way. There are so many leaders the leave their lives to misled people and people realized when it is too late to turn back. Our focal area today will not be on those who mislead people because they are not building but destroying. Our Nation today is living the free-life of the freedom of speech; of human rights we salute those leaders who acquired a set of leadership skills. Maybe by now as I am writing this peace I should have never got this chance but to remain slavery in a sort of being domestic worker for misleaders.  

Failure

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You are only a failure when you stop trying. Never give up in life. Every-time we mess up we withdraw points. Every-time we do something great we praise ourselves. This is same applies when you give up in life you are a failure. We need to enjoy being down and disappointed. There is nothing with being upset, depressed or down. When you accept that you had a bad day just decides to live with it and the day will pass. There is always a reason why you get down and upset. Listen to yourself and choose the right thing to do in that way you will never give up and be told that you are a failure.

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Failure breeds success when a person or company realize that is failing if this is noticed early the company quickly warns the investors about the flop that might happen, after that they quickly work on a plan not to allow to fall down. An example Coke was once in this situation but they noticed the problem and they spoke about it, investors prepared themselves but they overcome the obstacles. 

“Rock journalism is people who can’t write interviewing people who can’t talk for people who can’t read” (Frank Zappa) – Comment

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This comment from Frank Zappa must have been given a great impression in many people who come across it. There are so many ways of passing a message to different audiences of which I think Zappa meant it. Messages that can be passed through different types of music instruments namely; jazz, choral music, drums, pianist and all other material useful to pass the message. These were people who are not literally educated; they were using their natural brains to make their voice heard. 

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They were talented individuals. Such people know how to interpret messages from people who can’t write and interviewing people who can’t talk and read. This is what was meant by Zappa. Now that I am writing about it clearly make sense. In the past decades people were not educated and some of them were even reluctant to go to school. These people knew how to interpret messages through many ways that the musician, poet can sing his song or praise his poem. 

Zappa’s comment was quoted in order for people to open eyes wide, not to look at what is in front of them, or let me say to think out of the box. That is what the quote “Rock journalism is people who can’t write interviewing people who can’t talk for people who can’t read” meant. In the past years when elders were saying something they talking in parables, in today’s world it is up to us if we want to understand the meaning or not.

Thank you Zappa for this quote!!!!!!!!!!!

Goals

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When you stayed focused on your goals you will never miss a step. It does not matter for how long does it take to reach them but the important thing is to set your goals and standards. It is one and the same as when one has no goals or when you reach one goal you forget about the new ones. If new goals are not set this means a person is living a reversed reaction life. It is like you are in a steering wheel looking at the rearview mirror, always looking at what is coming at your back and forget about what you are going in in-front of you.

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No one can damage your self esteem unless you give it permission. The pin code of how do you want to live your life within you is known by you only. If you cannot accept who you are and set goals and standards for which you are no one will. Goal setting is about your ideal future. And motivating yourself to turn your vision and fulfill your dreams to reality. Setting goals is a powerful tool to success it is like budgeting which is a powerful tool to fight poorness. Goals are normally known for sport, I am not talking about those ones today I am talking about the plans you have in your future.

Attitude

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If you always criticize yourself you are lowering your altitude. You need to be gentle on yourself and watch how you quickly overcome some obstacles. The opinion of yourself will always determine how high you fly in life. Expressing your feelings is a good thing only a method required on how to express them in order to invite positive attitude and avoid negative attitude. Positive attitude helps to carry on with daily chores.

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It makes it easy to avoid negative attitude and worries. With positive attitude other things seems to be happening by itself. If you adopt positive attitude you will see a brighter side of life. Positive attitude provides the following:

Ø  Success

Ø  Motivation  

Ø  Creativity

Ø  Inspiration

Ø  Clear and pure thinking

Ø  Bringing solution instead of problem

Ø  Happiness and love   

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200 top of my achievement

1.    To be born alive.

2.    To grow up and manage to crawl, later manage to say the 1^st word.

3.    To be able to interpret the message from parents which means my 5 senses started to function

@ Hearing

@ Touching

@ Smelling

@ Sight

@ Tasting.

4.    The 1^st day at school.

5.    Pass all my classes from pre-primary, junior and secondary level.

6.    To enter the field of work with no proper qualification was an achievement.

7.    To bring a child in this world “Oh what a blessing” with no proper job “problem”.

8.    To be able to return back to school after years of working and do very good.

9.    I have National Diploma in Public Relations.

10. To be able to choose between good and bad right and wrong.

11. To build friendly relationships in each and every place I walk pass, at school, at work and at. Tertiary level too, in both student life and working class.

My list is endless, if we can compare it with a journey by train it is equal to move from Cape Town to Johannesburg and return back.

When I collect my mind and visualize my goals the only thing I know is that no matter how long did it take but I have achieved my goals. I just knew that Failure is not an option. With the help of my lovely grandmother I am dedicating these words for you “Fear of the unknown is dangerous” I will look forward not back. I have reached my goals but they do not end hear.