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Self
esteem is just like a house or a business, they both require a foundation. In
order to build a house you require a solid foundation whereas business needs
good capital to stand. Your goals require the same too. In my opinion the only
way to lift your self esteem is to know your goals. Wishes and dreams are for
everyone. Even the homeless people are dreaming having beautiful homes and
houses until the sunset for them. It is not that human beings are imperfect by
nature it is just that there is nothing
like perfect in this world of the opposites where everything is just
unpredictable where there is always someone prettier or less attractive , or
more intelligent or less so , or wealthier or poorer than the others.
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In most instances we used to relate this to
the perfect female body. In the past
decades our mothers were not suffering with obesity but in the 17-21st
Century there is a vast rate of women with big bodies. This is resulting in
most women loosing self esteem, developing hatred towards themselves through
comments made by people they trust most. You can change what you accept and
make it as a compliment by doing so you will not lack solid foundation to build
yourself esteem. The other thing on building self esteem is acceptance. You can
go to counseling sessions but if you do not want to accept they will not work.
Before
seeing social workers convince yourself that you will also add to what they
will say by being a social worker of yourself.
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